{"id":37103,"date":"2022-11-10T14:24:19","date_gmt":"2022-11-10T19:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/?p=37103"},"modified":"2023-02-02T11:59:52","modified_gmt":"2023-02-02T16:59:52","slug":"modest-is-still-hottest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/modest-is-still-hottest\/","title":{"rendered":"Modest is Still Hottest"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p3\">Christian modesty is a holistic, kingdom mindset and heart posture. It is not a look. It is not a capsule wardrobe full of turtlenecks and athletic maxi skirts. I have written about modesty before, and my friend captured my definition of Christian modestly beautifully. He said, \u201cModesty enables Christians to be the loudest about the things that have eternal value\u201d (Birley, 2021). My heart behind this message is not to meet you with shame, judgement, or condemnation but to share how walking a life with Jesus is full of His abundance and His confidence. His way is better [Isaiah 55:8-9].<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">God heavily placed it on my heart around two years ago to talk about modesty. I was hearing about how dark the gym felt on my college campus, and the Lord prompted me to go to the gym and pray while I worked out, rather than listen to music. The darkness was tangible. It is vital to our generation to recognize that the world and our God do not share the same definition of authenticity, love, and empowerment. The world will tell you it\u2019s empowering, authentic, and loving to yourself to flaunt yourself in inappropriate dress and to own your body. God literally says the opposite. Our body is not ours [Isaiah 64:8] and what is truly empowering, authentic, and loving to yourself is to remain in Jesus, because Jesus promises He will remain in us in return. The world is self focused. God has taught me self focus fertilizes fear. God is kingdom focused. God is God focused.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">Christian modesty is a holistic, kingdom mindset and heart posture; so it\u2019s an outward appearance that should reflect Christ. This won\u2019t happen until there is an inward shift in our minds and hearts. So how will that inward shift occur because 1 Samuel 16:7 says the LORD looks at the heart. Romans 8:5-8 says, \u201cThose who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace. The mind governed by the flesh is hostile to God; it does not submit to God\u2019s law, nor can it do so. Those who are in the realm of the flesh cannot please God.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">It is by the Spirit of God, not by will power, that your heart will change. You will not begin to care about the things of God [His delight is found in our obedience and an awe inspired worship \u2013 Psalm 147:10-11] until you\u2019re in the Word of God.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">I recently heard a quote by the man who is responsible for putting bibles in hotel rooms \u2013 how sick is that! He said, \u201cThe Bible contains the mind of God, the state of man, the way of salvation, the doom of sinners, and the happiness of believers. Its doctrines are holy, its precepts are binding, its histories are true, and its decisions are immutable. Read it to be wise, believe it to be safe, and practice it to be holy. It contains light to direct you, food to support you, and comfort to cheer you. It is the traveler\u2019s map, the pilgrim\u2019s staff, the pilot\u2019s compass, the soldier\u2019s sword and the Christian\u2019s charter. Here too, Heaven is opened and the gates of Hell disclosed. Christ is its grand subject, our good its design, and the glory of God its end. It should fill the memory, rule the heart and guide the feet. Read it slowly, frequently and prayerfully.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is a mine of wealth, a paradise of glory, and a river of pleasure. It is given you in life, will be opened at the judgment, and be remembered forever. It involves the highest responsibility, rewards the greatest labor, and will condemn all who trifle with its sacred contents\u201d (The Gideons International, 2011).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Let\u2019s define immodesty with an Elisabeth Elliot quote because who else would I quote: \u201cModesty means to be free from undue familiarity, from indecency, from lewdness, pure in thought and conduct. Speaking of modest apparel, it means decent, seemly. The opposite of modesty is conceit, boldness, immodesty, brazenness, lewdness\u201d (Elliot, 1984). Okay now let\u2019s define lewdness and brazenness because I sure didn\u2019t know what those meant. Lewdness means involving sexual conduct that is considered indecent or offensive and brazenness is a behavior in which someone does something in an obvious way, without trying to hide it. Y\u2019all, it takes humility to dress modestly!<\/p>\n\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 50%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-37103 gallery-columns-2 gallery-size-full'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/modest-is-still-hottest\/img_6056\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1284\" height=\"2283\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6056.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6056.jpg 1284w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6056-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6056-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6056-768x1366.jpg 768w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6056-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6056-1152x2048.jpg 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1284px) 100vw, 1284px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/modest-is-still-hottest\/img_6055\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1284\" height=\"2283\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6055.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6055.jpg 1284w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6055-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6055-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6055-768x1366.jpg 768w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6055-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/IMG_6055-1152x2048.jpg 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1284px) 100vw, 1284px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">I want to let you in on my journey with getting this idea of Christian modesty into my head and my heart. My freshman year of college I was coming in with the knowledge that my school had a dress code. My expectation was they would have some ridiculous modesty talk about why we have it and how I would not be able to personally \u2018express myself.\u2019 Well, it wasn\u2019t my fault guys were weird! My RA surprised me with an explanation that changed everything for me.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">She shared how our brothers in Christ would one day be married to one of our sisters in Christ. Why would we ever want to get in the way of their journey of purity? A life of purity is hard enough in it of itself; adding deliberate immodest dressing is unnecessary.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Immodest dressing is not honoring to them. &amp; guess what? It\u2019s not about us, it\u2019s about building the kingdom and honoring our brothers and sisters in Christ. We do not belong to the world or to ourselves, but we belong to the most beautiful Father Who knows best.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">We should not be known by worldly standards. To quote my friend, \u201cWhen I see a girl who is not dressed appropriately, I believe that this shows that she may not know her value as it pertains to being a daughter of the most high King. I feel like it is their way of receiving attention and in turn affirmation for something other than their personality and who they are as a person\u201d (Birley, 2021).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">The comment I continue to get when people know I am passionate about modesty is, \u201cit\u2019s not just for girls, guys have to be modest too!\u201d Nancy DeMoss puts it plainly: \u201cThis isn\u2019t to suggest that men aren\u2019t responsible for their thought life or their behavior. They are. And they have to learn how to walk with God and bring those thoughts under the control of Christ, even though they live in a culture where immodesty is rampant. However, as Christian women, our clothing choices can either help men succeed morally or can put temptation in their path that they may find difficult to overcome. That means both men and women are responsible for moral purity!\u201d Then she shares this sick equation: \u201cWhat we wear + How we look = A picture of what we believe\u201d (DeMoss, 2003).<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">Our entire demeanor should reflect who He is, who we are in Him. 1 Timothy 2:9-10 in The Passion Translation says, \u201cAnd that the women would also pray with clean hearts, dressed appropriately, and adorned modestly and sensibly, not flaunting their wealth. But they should be recognized instead by their beautiful deeds of kindness, suitable as one who worships God.\u201d To quote my friend, \u201cAs Christians, if we declare that we\u2019re living for Jesus, that declaration should impact the Christian\u2019s life holistically\u201d (Birley, 2021).<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">So how do we practically go about this? I think it\u2019s stunning how many times the Word of God talks about how we are to clothe ourselves and how we are fashioned and formed by God. Colossians 3:12-14 says, \u201cAs God\u2019s chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience \u2026 Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.\u201d I think a root that breathes life into someone wanting to dress immodestly is fear of man. 1 John 4:18 says that perfect love cast out fear &amp; Paul just told us to above all else clothe ourselves with love.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">I think this is an awesome spot to address 1 Peter 3 where he talks about where our beauty should come from: \u201cnot come from outward adornment, such as \u2026 fine clothes.\u201d Y\u2019all, I love clothes. I love getting dressed for the day, and I love helping my friends do the same. The Word isn\u2019t telling me I cannot care about getting dressed and investing in timeless, \u201cfine\u201d pieces. What it is telling me is that when I am going about my day am I looking for heads to turn to look at my outfit, or in this topic\u2019s case, every outline of my body? Or am I looking to have my identity in Christ precede me in everything I do? I woke up with breath in my lungs today because God wants me to receive His love and then send it out to a dark world. I once heard immodesty defined as oversexualized persuasion \u2026 it sure made me dislike the word persuasion. I would rather \u201cpersuade\u201d someone to choose Jesus, choose joy, choose freedom.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">Seeing every outline of your body is not the ultimate \u201cdang she looks good.\u201d The ultimate \u201cdang she looks good\u201d should be being known by our fruit. My friend gave me a collage that had Romans 13:14 on it. She was telling me how she thought it was so fun how much I loved picking out my outfit everyday. She said put this up where you get dressed each day so that way you can literally pray, \u201cRather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.\u201d So as I get dressed in the morning I am not clothing myself in the mindset of vanity and look at me but in the mind of Jesus!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">We are called to be set apart! 1 Peter 2:9 says, \u201cBut you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God\u2019s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.\u201d To quote my friend, \u201cI think modesty shows thought and care for others. It\u2019s not something to think I\u2019m holier or better than somebody but rather I value others\u201d (Birley, 2021). I love this quote so much. It is also loving to assume the best in your brothers and sisters in Christ. Their path of modesty may look different than yours. Sanctification doesn\u2019t happen overnight. It is walking in step daily with the Spirit [Galatians 5:16].<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">1 Corinthians 6:19-20 says, \u201cDo you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.\u201d We were a terrible and trash investment, but Jesus went all in. It\u2019s not about you. It\u2019s about the kingdom.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">It is loving to your past, present, and future self to dress modestly. It is loving to your brothers and sisters too. At the end of the day the question to ask ourselves is, \u201cGod, what did you think about that [my outfit, that interaction, that thought, that speech, that comment]?\u201d<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>&amp; girls let\u2019s be honest here! You will attract a guy\u2019s attention at the gym or on a hot girl walk or in class or running to Trader Joe\u2019s in an outfit where you can see every outline of your body. But what kind of guy do you think you\u2019re attracting here? Your body is so temporary! Wouldn\u2019t you rather attract a guy who would be attracted to the Holy Spirit inside of you? Something that is oh so lasting, praise the LORD! What a pure and beautiful way to be pursued. I\u2019ll end with a quote from the Jonas Brothers, \u201cI can&#8217;t get your smile out of my mind. I think about your eyes all the time. You&#8217;re beautiful but you don&#8217;t even try. Modesty is just so hard to find.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\">If this blog intrigued you and you want to dive in deeper, learn how to dress in any kind of style but do so modestly, or just love fashion in general please join the LO SISTER APP. Keep an eye out for content to come! I\u2019m really excited about it \u2013 think style tips and recreating looks \u2026 eep!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\"><strong>References<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\">Birley, A. G. C. (2021, May 27).\u00a0<i>Modesty<\/i>. AG The Look. Retrieved October 19, 2022, from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.agthelook.com\/blog\/modesty\"><span class=\"s1\">https:\/\/www.agthelook.com\/blog\/modesty<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p8\">DeMoss, Nancy Leigh. <i>The Look &#8211; Does God Really Care What I Wear?<\/i> Buchanan: Revive Our Hearts, 2003.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\">Elliot, E. (1984)\u00a0<i>Elisabeth Elliot Quotes about modesty: A-Z quotes<\/i>. A-Z Quotes. Retrieved October 20, 2022, from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azquotes.com\/author\/17940-Elisabeth_Elliot\/tag\/modesty\"><span class=\"s1\">https:\/\/www.azquotes.com\/author\/17940-Elisabeth_Elliot\/tag\/modesty<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\">The Gideons International. (2011, May 18).\u00a0<i>An inspiring introduction to the holy book<\/i>. The Gideons International. Retrieved October 19, 2022, from <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.gideons.org\/2010\/12\/the-bible-contains-the-mind-of-god\/\"><span class=\"s1\">http:\/\/blog.gideons.org\/2010\/12\/the-bible-contains-the-mind-of-god\/<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p7\"><em>Anna Grace is a member of Team LO &amp; a recent graduate of Liberty University. She is a massive Atlanta Braves fan [her hometown, ayo!], uses the phrase \u2018that\u2019s punk rock\u2019 frequently in the office, &amp; is a stylist where she takes things you already own and creates new outfits.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Advice we can all learn from<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":248,"featured_media":226857,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[305,1],"tags":[],"coauthors":[269],"class_list":["post-37103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-homepage","category-life-advice"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/248"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37103"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37109,"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37103\/revisions\/37109"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/226857"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37103"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=37103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}