{"id":231320,"date":"2024-12-06T14:58:21","date_gmt":"2024-12-06T19:58:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/?p=231320"},"modified":"2024-12-06T14:58:21","modified_gmt":"2024-12-06T19:58:21","slug":"how-can-i-trust-god-when-i-dont-understand-his-ways","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/how-can-i-trust-god-when-i-dont-understand-his-ways\/","title":{"rendered":"How Can I Trust God When I Don\u2019t Understand His Ways?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cTrust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.\u201d<\/em> (Proverbs 3:5-6, NIV)<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>I\u2019ve been studying the topic of trust lately. And what I\u2019ve realized is that I attach a great deal of my trust in God to my desire for things to turn out like I think they should.<\/p>\n<p>I want the goodness of God to compel Him to fix things, change minds, prevent hurt, punish the bad, and vindicate the good on my timeline. I want the goodness of God to make people who do hurtful things say they are sorry and then act better, do better, be better. I\u2019m desperate for Him to make circumstances good in the timing that seems good to me.<\/p>\n<p>But that\u2019s not faith. It\u2019s actually a sign that because I still don\u2019t understand what he allowed to happen in my past, I\u2019m struggling to trust him with my future. So I\u2019ve started asking myself this question: Can I trust Him enough to really start surrendering the outcomes the way my life will go?<\/p>\n<p>Proverbs 3:5\u20136 instructs, <em>\u201cTrust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.\u201d<\/em> I know these verses, but I want to live these verses. And in order to do that, I must acknowledge God\u2019s version of making my path straight most likely will not line up with what I expect.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ugh. Can I do that?<\/em> Can I make peace with the fact that my definition of a path being made straight is limited by my human thinking and emotion? Can I find my security in the unlimited, all knowing power of God?<\/p>\n<p>Friend, as we sit with all of this, I\u2019m reminded of this big, uprooted oak tree I once saw after some bad weather. It was a stately tree that appeared incredibly grounded and stable. But as I got closer to the fallen giant, I saw that when it fell, the roots were so shallow that they lifted out of the ground as well. As a crew was cutting up the tree to remove it, I saw that the tree was hollow on the inside. I just had to know: <em>What made such a seemingly immovable tree fall?<\/em> One of the men said, <em>\u201cShallow roots and ants.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHuh?\u201d<\/em> I replied. He explained that sometimes big trees that grow in yards with sprinkler systems get so easily satisfied by the water from the surface that the roots don\u2019t need to go deep into the ground for water. The trees can look strong and stable, but shallow roots make them less stable and way more vulnerable in storms and strong winds.<\/p>\n<p>Oh boy. I could feel the life lesson coming in hot.<\/p>\n\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-231320 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-full'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/how-can-i-trust-god-when-i-dont-understand-his-ways\/lysa-2\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-2.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-2.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-2-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-2-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/how-can-i-trust-god-when-i-dont-understand-his-ways\/lysa\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/how-can-i-trust-god-when-i-dont-understand-his-ways\/lysa-dotter\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-Dotter.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-Dotter.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-Dotter-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LYSA-Dotter-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>When life looks like I expect it to and feels relatively good, I am tempted to get satisfied with where I\u2019m at and not continue to grow deeper and deeper in my faith. Or if I\u2019m just letting others sprinkle some biblical wisdom on me through their sermons and podcasts but I\u2019m not digging into God\u2019s Word and going deeper in my application, then my roots will be shallow.<\/p>\n<p>That all seems okay until a storm comes. And storms always eventually do come. The ants played a big part in this tree falling as well. They target where some sort of injury has occurred and the moisture that gets in has started to weaken the wood. Taking full advantage of the softer wood, they wear away at it, eventually even damaging the sound wood and making the tree hollow inside, even though it may look solid from the outside. The more hollow the tree becomes, the more it will lose structural strength.<\/p>\n<p>Notice that the hollowing out of the tree and the tree having shallow roots happened slowly, daily, one compromise after another. I am a lot like that tree. But instead of trying to control things beyond my control, I want to make the choice to surrender them today to God. And then surrender again tomorrow. And the next day too. Refusing to control is an act of building more and more trust with God.<\/p>\n<p>Each time I have doubts and fears about God\u2019s goodness, I will bring these to God and let His truth refute them. My job is daily obedience to God. His job is holding and handling my future. This is a whole lot to think through. It&#8217;s weighty stuff. But for today, let\u2019s hold onto this truth: Trusting God is holding loosely the parts of my life I want to hold most tightly. Is it easy? No. But is it the pathway to the peace I long for? Yes, it really is.<\/p>\n<p>Lysa TerKeurst is president and chief visionary officer of Proverbs 31 Ministries and the author of seven New York Times bestsellers. Her latest book is <strong><em>I Want To Trust You, But I Don\u2019t<\/em><\/strong> (October 2024, Thomas Nelson). She enjoys life with her husband Chaz and her kids and grandkids. Connect with her at www.LysaTerKeurst.com or on social media @LysaTerKeurst.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cTrust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.\u201d (Proverbs 3:5-6, NIV) \u00a0I\u2019ve been studying the topic of trust lately. 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