{"id":230659,"date":"2024-10-08T11:54:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-08T15:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/?p=230659"},"modified":"2024-10-08T11:54:00","modified_gmt":"2024-10-08T15:54:00","slug":"attending-the-healing-within","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/attending-the-healing-within\/","title":{"rendered":"Attending to the Healing Within"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>People who\u2019ve seen me for soul care over the years know that I sometimes begin a session with a simple question: \u201cWhere do you find yourself today?\u201d The question varies and shifts, but it\u2019s an echo of that very first question God asks in Genesis 3. It\u2019s an invitation to become curious about what\u2019s happening within. It\u2019s an invitation to return and retune, to awaken to the ancient whisper of love amidst the ache of alienation.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Some will tell me that it\u2019s been a good week, but after a bit of reflection, they recognize that they\u2019ve merely been distracted from what\u2019s been simmering within. Others might share that they just don\u2019t know, that life has been a blur, that they\u2019re not entirely sure where they are or what\u2019s stirring inside of them. Still others have not had time to consider where they are because they\u2019ve been attending to everyone and everything around them. Many of us don\u2019t know how lost we are. We\u2019ve become habituated to a life of disconnection. We\u2019ve developed a tragic case of amnesia, forgetting our original goodness and glory, far from home and without a map to guide us.<\/div>\n<div>Indeed, it\u2019s true that we\u2019re disconnected, in part, because we\u2019ve walled ourselves off to what\u2019s happening within. But it\u2019s also the case that we\u2019ve lost track of who we were created to be, our divine design, God\u2019s unique image within us with its possibility for fullness and flourishing in our lives.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>And to understand how we\u2019ve lost track of ourselves, we need to be reminded of where we began.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>The Bible begins in connection, two chapters offering a glimpse of the glorious joy and intimacy God enjoyed with Adam and Eve. This life of goodness, this overflow of divine love, this is what we were made for, the imprint of God\u2019s image deeper than any traumatic imprint we\u2019ll ever encounter. To bear the image of God (Genesis 1:27) is to experience, at your core, an irrevocable inheritance of worth, belonging, and purpose.4<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>To live freely and fully from here is to know that you were created for deep worth\u2014that you\u2019ve been uniquely designed for dignity, that God delights in you, that you are enough, at your core.5 It is to know that you were created for belonging\u2014God the Trinity creates you for union and communion, for interdependence and intimacy, with God, each other, and creation.\u00a0And it is to know that you are created for purpose\u2014stamped with God\u2019s image, which means that wherever you go, you go in the name of God, called by God, as an ambassador of God\u2019s shalom. This is your divine imprint, your deepest core, your impermeable identity, your irrevocable gift. This is the better and more hopeful story you\u2019ve been designed for.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>The Bible begins here, and this is where your story begins too. God has always longed to walk with you, even to make his home within you, closer to you than you are to yourself, as St. Augustine once said.6 He\u2019s always wanted more for you than what you too often settle for. And our age-old dilemma is rooted in our inability to trust this goodness. It all goes back to that ancient tale.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"elementToProof\">\u201cEvery man has forgotten who he is,\u201d wrote the great English writer and philosopher G. K. Chesterton. \u201cWe are all under the same mental calamity; we have all forgotten our names. We have all forgotten what we really are.\u201d7 Sometimes the fog is so thick and the storms so intense that we lose our bearings.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>But God goes looking, longing for us to come home.<\/div>\n<div>\n\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-230659 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-full'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/attending-the-healing-within\/lisa-4-2\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-4-1.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-4-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-4-1-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-4-1-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/attending-the-healing-within\/lisa-2-2\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-2-1.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-2-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-2-1-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-2-1-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/attending-the-healing-within\/lisa-3-2\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-3-1.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-3-1.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-3-1-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/LISA-3-1-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Amidst Adam and Eve\u2019s ruptured relationship, God\u2019s first move is toward reconnection. \u201cWhere are you?\u201d comes a voice, kind and longing.<\/div>\n<div>At first glance, the question might seem silly to you. Of course, God knows where Adam and Eve are. But perhaps God wants them to recognize how hidden they are and how far they\u2019ve ventured away. Perhaps God hopes they\u2019ll awaken with a new curiosity and maybe even a new hunger for home. And perhaps God wants the same for you.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>God goes out looking for you, like any parent of one who is lost, like a compassionate father heartsick for his prodigal child. God\u2019s kind \u201cWhere are you?\u201d invites you to pay attention to what\u2019s happening within, to attend to the storms that churn and the fog that dulls, disorienting and disconnecting you. And this requires courage. Too many of us grew up being taught to evade and avoid our ache, to be strong, to suffer alone. Too many of us are offered a faith story that minimizes the pain, that ignores our sense of alienation from ourselves and one another, that even cheapens the reality of God\u2019s compassion in our profound need. But God\u2019s \u201cWhere are you?\u201d also invites each of us to remember who we are, at our core.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"elementToProof\">\u201cThe world is not served by those who are alienated from themselves and others, nor by those who in their pain bring pain to others,\u201d writes psychoanalyst James Hollis.8 And yet many of us remain alienated for far too long. We lose track of how long because we\u2019re so busy, distracted, preoccupied, far from God and far from ourselves. We need to be reminded of a better story\u2014that home is nearer than we imagine, that God is whispering from within, \u201cWhere are you?\u201d<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><i>4. Some noteworthy resources: See Nonna Verna Harrison\u2019s God\u2019s Many-Splendored Image. On worth and dignity, see Richard L. Pratt\u2019s Designed for Dignity. On belonging, see Stanley Grenz\u2019s The Social God and the Relational Self. On purpose, see J. Richard Middleton\u2019s The Liberating Image.<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>5. \u201cIt is not the will of God, however, that we should forget the primeval dignity which he bestowed on our first parents\u2014a dignity which may well stimulate us to the pursuit of goodness and justice.\u201d John Calvin, Institutes of the Christian Religion, book 2, chapter 1.<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>6. St. Augustine, Confessions (3.6.11), from Nicene and Post-Nicene Fathers, First Series, vol. 1. trans. J. G. Pilkington, ed. Philip Schaff (Buffalo, NY: Christian Literature Publishing Co., 1887), rev. and ed. Kevin Knight, New Advent, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/fathers\/110103.htm\">https:\/\/www.newadvent.org\/fathers\/110103.htm<\/a>.<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>7. G.K. Chesterton, Collected Works, Volume 1 (San Francisco, CA: Ignatius Press, 1986), 35.<\/i><\/div>\n<div><i>8. James Hollis, The Middle Passage (Toronto: Inner City Books, 1993), 99.<\/i><\/div>\n<div class=\"elementToProof\"><i>Adapted from Healing What\u2019s Within: Coming Home to Yourself\u2014and to God\u2014When You\u2019re Wounded, Weary, and Wandering by Chuck DeGroat. Copyright \u00a9 2024. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, a Division of Tyndale House Ministries. All rights reserved.<\/i><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People who\u2019ve seen me for soul care over the years know that I sometimes begin a session with a simple question: \u201cWhere do you find yourself today?\u201d The question varies and shifts, but it\u2019s an echo of that very first question God asks in Genesis 3. 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