{"id":227413,"date":"2023-05-02T12:26:55","date_gmt":"2023-05-02T16:26:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/?p=227413"},"modified":"2023-05-11T11:11:48","modified_gmt":"2023-05-11T15:11:48","slug":"what-is-church-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/what-is-church-2\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Church?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">church<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? How do we define it when our definitions change over time and can depend on a number of variables such as the passing of time and the experience of crises? When do we lose track of what it means and how? How do we bring meaning back to the word? I wasn\u2019t sure how to define <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">church<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in early 2020, and if truth be told, before the lockdowns began, I didn\u2019t even know I would have to revisit the concept of church.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The women had a front-row seat as the men in our circles experienced real life together\u2014studying, praying, and serving each other. Together they were recreating the church of the first Christians. I wanted in, and other wives did as well. So we began our own weekly Bible study. Each Tuesday, we gathered as women\u2014same structure, same vision. We entered inspired and hopeful. Eager and vulnerable, we tended to each other\u2019s needs with a simple group text thread.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As we worked together in community, I was reminded of something the ancient apologist <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Blaise Pascal once wrote about a great wager that everyone must make. He urged his readers to bet on God in this wager, for \u201cif you win you win everything\u201d\u2014truth, happiness, and the good\u2014and \u201cif you lose you lose nothing. Do not hesitate then; wager that he does exist.\u201d Investing in community is the same kind of wager. If we win, we win a full and flourishing life, and if we lose, we\u2019ve made a lot of friends to help us endure the hardship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We began waking up together\u2014waking to passion and purpose, to conviction, to what it <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">means to be the church. Our awakening propelled us to be the hands and feet of Christ in the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">world around us. We were being revived one by one, and once we\u2019re revived personally, we <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">begin to be revived corporately.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our community began hosting town hall meetings with local business owners, curating <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conversations with city leaders, laying groundwork for community gardens, planning schooling <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">alternatives, and organizing medical support for frontline workers. Just as in the book of Acts, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">numbers were being added to the men\u2019s Bible study and community initiatives by the day. The <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">women were activated too, and we looked for ways to serve one another, starting a group text <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">thread to facilitate needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who needs prayer?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who needs a meal or a care basket because of a loss?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who needs a ride?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anyone requiring a doctor recommendation?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who needs a wedding venue because their previously chosen venue closed its doors?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It wasn\u2019t just the text thread. We rolled up our sleeves and got about our work of being the church. We hosted \u201cchurch\u201d on our front lawn because we couldn\u2019t forsake our \u201cmeeting together\u201d (Hebrews 10:25). Family blankets took the place of pews. One family led worship <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">from their blanket, with my friend Christy leading the chorus and her husband, Nathan, accompanying with his guitar. Another family read Scripture and led a discussion. Since each <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">family brought their own Communion elements, other families led in the time of Communion <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and prayer. That afternoon, we were living what N. T. Wright described in his book <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Simply <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christian:<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u201cThe church is first and foremost a <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">community<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, a collection of people who belong to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">one another because they belong to God, the God we know in and through Jesus.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By early summer, the First Front Lawnist Church of Franklin was on a roll. Not only were <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">we hosting worship gatherings, but on one beautiful May Saturday, we hosted a wedding for <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Molly and Peter, one of the men in this multigenerational community. Because every venue was <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">shut down, we created our own. The families and several guests gathered\u2014seated in a dozen or so wooden chairs under a canopy of trees, with wind chimes as our backdrop. A path meandered down the slope to a short hop over the stream for the bride\u2019s entrance. It was a full Lyons family affair, with Pierce playing guitar, Joy serving as the flower girl, and Gabe and I reading the Scriptures. It was glorious.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-227413 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-full'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/what-is-church-2\/rebekahlyons-blog-4\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-4.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-4.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-4-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-4-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/what-is-church-2\/rebekahlyons-blog\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/what-is-church-2\/rebekahlyons-blog-2\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-2.png\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-2.png 1080w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-2-980x1742.png 980w, https:\/\/liveoriginal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/RebekahLyons-Blog-2-480x853.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1080px, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl><br style=\"clear: both\" \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Real-life church services brought a breath of fresh air, particularly for our kiddos. The <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">extended isolation was hitting them hard, especially those with differing abilities who were <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nonverbal. During the many months of not meeting together, events were canceled, including our annual Best Buddies prom. Live events were substituted with online events, which weren\u2019t <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">necessarily helpful for everyone, including Cade.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A couple families had seen how much our in-person community lawn gatherings had helped Cade, and they decided to put on the best prom ever for Cade and many friends in our <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">community. The prom took place in a local \u201cparty barn\u201d donated for the event\u2014complete with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">red-carpet walkway, massive balloon arch, photo booth, and a step and repeat banner photo <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">backdrop. The meal included chicken tenders and sparkling sodas. Cade wore a tuxedo and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">escorted his date, Kennedy, who wore a floor-length blue silk dress. They danced the night away with more than fifty friends, all of whom were desperate to celebrate together. It was the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">highlight of their spring.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In our first five years in Franklin, we thought we had been \u201cdoing community.\u201d We attended church regularly and would often have people in our home for dinner or impromptu parties. In 2020, we learned a different way of being a true Christian community. It was the kind of community that depended on one another, not just as some sought-after Christian ideal, but as a genuine mechanism for flourishing. We depended on one another for even our most basic <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">needs\u2014food, fellowship, and even the occasional financial need. We came to realize that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">resilient lives are not formed in isolation; resilient lives are forged in community.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>We Are a Communal People Created by a Communal God.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In what became known as his \u201cfarewell discourse,\u201d Jesus prayed for a unified community, a collective church that was bigger than any one individual:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMy prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as we are one\u2014I in them and you in me\u2014so that they may be brought to complete <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you <\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em>have loved me.\u201d<\/em> <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(John 17:20\u201323)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the same way that God has inherent interpersonal relationship between the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, so Jesus prays that we will be image bearers of God in the way we participate in our own community. In the book of Acts, we see the first vision of Jesus\u2019 prayer come to fruition when the Holy Spirit is poured out on the people of God and the church comes into existence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jesus recognized that the church is made up of individuals who believe in him, but he did not simply pray for \u201cthem alone.\u201d He prayed for them together\u2014in community. He prayed for our relationship with one another, that we would experience the kind of relationship he has with God the Father\u2014a relationship of complete unity. As we saw in the previous chapter, that prayer for unity came to life in the earliest gatherings of the church. It came to life in our own gatherings t<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">oo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What did we find?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In a unified community, we found a more holistic version of resilience. We became an <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">unshakable community that helped meet one another\u2019s needs. This began to spread to our <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">broader community among friends in other cities. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are far more resilient as a whole community than as self-sufficient individuals. The <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">difference is staggering. When the Holy Spirit unites his people, the church, through consistent <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">commitment to the Scriptures, prayer, and one another, a holistic resilience emerges that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">becomes unshakable both in the individual and in the group. It\u2019s an irrepressible force that <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">creates a more resilient world.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>We Were Made to Need One Another<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We live in an individualistic society, one that teaches us that <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">self-sufficiency<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is resilience. We were not made to resist adversity alone; we were made to have our needs met in community, which is why resilience isn\u2019t cultivated in a vacuum. In fact, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recognizes the role of community in building resilience: \u201cCommunity health resilience measures the ability of people, businesses, governments, nonprofit groups, and faith-based organizations to work together to create systems that can withstand, adapt to, and recover from a public health emergency.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Research shows that a strong support system or resilient community during times of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adversity allows us to bounce back. Many of us don\u2019t need a research study to tell us what we <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">already know. Why is community so important in building resilience?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">True community reminds you who you really are. A community of like-minded people calls forth the character and integrity they believe you embody. They hold you accountable so that your inside matches your outside, your private life matches your public life. It reminds you that you\u2019re stronger than you think, you\u2019re braver than you think, you\u2019re more loved than you think. Christ-centered community encourages you to grow in connection to Christ too, which makes you infinitely more resilient. That \u201ccalling forth,\u201d particularly when done in love and consistent community, creates true belonging. It gives you permission to be known and to know others. When you belong, you are beloved and your gifts are seen and celebrated\u2014and when your gifts are seen and celebrated, they can be used.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><b>Rebekah Lyons<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is a national speaker, host of the Rhythms for Life podcast, and bestselling author of Rhythms of Renewal, You Are Free, and Freefall to Fly. An old soul with a contemporary, honest voice, Rebekah reveals her own battles to overcome anxiety and depression&#8211;and invites others to discover and boldly pursue their God-given purpose. Alongside her husband, Gabe, Rebekah finds joy in raising four children, two of whom have Down syndrome. Her work has been featured on The TODAY Show, Good Morning America, CNN, FOX News, Publishers Weekly Starred Reviews and more. Her latest book, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rebekahlyons.com\/rlbook\"><b>Building a Resilient Life: How Adversity Awakens Strength, Hope and Meaning<\/b><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">will be available nationwide May 2, 2023.\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is church? How do we define it when our definitions change over time and can depend on a number of variables such as the passing of time and the experience of crises? When do we lose track of what it means and how? 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